Resolving a fight and preventing future ones

If you have recently had a fight with your partner things may be tense for a few days so unless you want to have the cold shoulder for that time frame there are a few things you can do to better the situation. If you love your partner then sometimes you may be the one to say sorry even if the fight was not started by you. It’s normal for all couples to fight whether you are dating or married but how it’s handled depends on you and your partner.

Avoid anger while fighting

The first thing you should avoid during a fight and all future fights are trying to not fight out of anger. You often say things that can be very damaging to your relationship and it may be stuff that you would never normally say anyways. Calling each other names and yelling at the top of your lungs will not resolve anything. If you have just had a fight with your partner, attempt to talk to them once things have cooled down. Tell them that you are very sorry that it has escalated to the point it has and you would like to either talk things out rationally or just let it go. If the issue is something minor and really has no importance then it’s not even worth fighting about. Many couples often end up fighting over something silly that could have been avoided all together.

If something has been bothering you and you feel as though talking to your partner about it will only end in you sleeping in different rooms or even houses then try doing it via email. If you had the time to sit down and think about what you want to say before actually speaking things would often be calmer but who really has time to think when you are in the middle of a heated discussion. By sending your thoughts via email you can really plan and think about what you want to write. It will also give your partner time to think about it and either respond via email or discuss it later at home with you.

Howto make up after the fight

If you want to make up with your partner from a recent fight maybe plan a special night out for just the two of you. Take them to a restaurant that you know they really like and even offer to attend an event that they really like even if you don’t. If you want to make your female companion feel special maybe pick her up a bouquet of her favorite flowers or purchase some of her favorite perfume. If you want to make your male partner feel special purchase tickets to his favorite sporting event and make it a fun filled day for him. There are little things that you can do to help a bad fight turn into a happy ending.

One of the easiest things that you can often do to make things better after a fight is by simply saying you’re sorry and giving them a loving embrace. That costs no money and if done with real feeling you and your partner should be back on good terms in no time.

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Mimi brian sent this on 18/09/2012, 02:13

I luv my partner somuch nd her luvs me 2. He complains ova everytin i do nd he gets angry easily. I dnt knw hw 2 make tins work btween us cos i dnt wan2 loose him

faith sent this on 02/04/2012, 13:09

My boyfrnd is so jelus in a way that i end up being angry cuz am dating only hm,i even thnk of changing my starter pack to avoid prblems cuz i hav many frnds

amanda sent this on 14/02/2012, 06:41

Johnlee, you should talk 2 her about what you feeling. myb she has no idea that what shes doing hurts you.try and make her understand.

Amanda sent this on 14/02/2012, 05:51

M in a relationship with this guy.every thing was going well but every time he talks about sex he turns me off.

michael sent this on 11/02/2012, 03:57

This is a girl i love,and she knows, each time we decides on getting into a relationship something comes up scatter our plan,i was jokking with her recently and she took it personal and refused to pick my call,trying 2 chat with her through bbm but she is not replying,i love her and i want her

Angel sent this on 09/02/2012, 06:10

I lv my hubby vry mch bt sumtym h myk flps, en dat rlly hrt me

NJEBZA ELL sent this on 08/02/2012, 09:13


Vicky Kamboj sent this on 08/01/2012, 05:46

Love is word, dat keep on goin without an end.true love dont have an for u is like the word.

Raja Daniyal sent this on 14/12/2011, 05:13

I love my partner name laiba and he also loves me but due to some problems he left me i really love her

Johnlee sent this on 30/11/2011, 01:46

I'm so badly in love with her, but she always keep on hurtin my feelings almost daily,she urgue for something stupid,acusing me for something that i hev nvr done.nw am sick nd tired with this,but i dnt want her to spare frm me coz i lov her.pls hlp wat 2d