At the first date how romantic you should be?
No matter if you think about the first romantic date with a new person or just the first date in your life, this special occasion is a very emotionally as well as intellectually challenging one and that because of the pressure of "first impression counts" wise and old, still actual, saying.
Yes, that's true, the first impression counts and this is what you should have in mind when preparing to go out for a first romantic date with your possible next love or who knows ?!... maybe the greatest love of your life.
When I talk about first impression I don't necessary mean the impression provoked by the way you look - it does count that, too, however it is not the most important aspect - but I am talking about the way your girlfriend will be left feeling about dating with you.
There is a famous and true saying, "People will not remember what you said. People will not remember what you did. But people will always remember how you made them feel." ( Maya Angelou ), which apply even for romantic dating situations.
But what does "romantic date" mean?
Well, it seems that there is not such thing as an universally valid definition for this concept, the meaning varies largely from person to person. Generally speaking, romance is an outward expression of someone's affection in a such creative yet old fashioned ways that would make the beneficiary emotionally overwhelmed by the passion displayed. We can say then that being romantic means expressing creatively your love for your mate.Let's see now how can you make her leave with the feeling that the time spent with you was a great romantic date and that you're The One for her.
First, you should make a list of the "data" you already have about your girl and start planning your date taking in consideration that information.
For example, if you know about her she is kind of 'tough" girl who likes to watch and to do extreme sports and prefer to watch action movies instead of love stories, chances are that she appreciates more the "macho" type boy than an overly romantic one and in this case be wise and act consequently.
This does not mean you should behave like a totally anti-romantic "macho" during your romantic date, but rather that you should moderate your romantic gestures.
Neither appear with a bunch of red roses when meeting her, nor let her leave without any flower, better make your walking/driving itinerary beside a flower shop, stop there and invite her to choose her favorite flowers.
Also, this way you make sure won't pick the wrong flowers ( you might be surprised but there are a lot of girls who simply don't like roses despite of the romantic potential meaning they have, though they might never express that explicitly to you).
The next step is to choose carefully the place where to go and the type of activity you'll do. No matter what personality is your girl, for a first romantic date avoid the crowded places such as a cinema, theatres, museums, amusement parks and the like even if your date is the extrovert type and would normally prefer such places.
Why? Because you won't have the opportunity to talk about yourself and get to know each other better, a crucial condition for propelling and developing a lasting relationship.
Plus, you may risk to leave the girl having a feeling that you were afraid of spending time "face to face" with her and preferred instead to "hide" behind the crowd, she might even think you don't actually like her that much and she 's just an "adventure" for you.
Remember that this first romantic date is essential to convince her you're worthy of being her next boyfriend, it's not time to be cheap now , so pick up a nice restaurant and have dinner together . Don't forget to announce her in advance where you have in mind to go, that way she could dress properly for the event. Apart for spending a romantic evening (you might even invite her to dance if you're good at dancing), you'll have an excellent opportunity to find out more about each other preferences.
Another important thing to take in consideration for a romantic date is to leave room for mystery, too. Don't share with her every of your hobbies, dreams, thoughts and plans for future, you'll look like a nice guy but totally uninteresting, good to be "just friends", not her lover.
Girls love "magic", that would make them dream with open eyes and they'll go crazy for the guy who knows how to create that sensation.
love makes us alive;without love life is nothing
love is god
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love is great
love is egg for hen.
love is every thing
love means never ever having to say that u r sorry
love iz blind..........
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love means nothing to say your sorry
Love is life
great article...but u went on with out mentioning abt varios category f gals except dat sporty one...,,,,am i right??? bt i admire u...done a grt job...
without love is like food without salt .love is good and important.
on 1st date ppl shld look gud and feel gud wid ur patner
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love is life its god.d person u love is everything 4 u.love is god.it doesn't expects anything in return.just love your buddy from d bottom of your heart
I think Love is every thing. I LOVE U SAM :-)
in the world only one thing is real.that s love.
Any one cannot destroy that
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It make sense.
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love is factual and your believe on it will help you create the the attitude
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grt suggestions,
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briliant ideas
On the first date just forget the world and there is no one in the world except you and than feel the moment. Love you all
Yeah..i agree w/ this first impression on the first date bcoz i was then havng a great time on our first date w/ my boyfrnd..and now were still togethr & too mch in love w/ each other & it will b 4evr..thanks 4 ur advice,it really works..
i agree with u,first impression means a lot.thx for that advised
first impression means a lot,i agree with u a lot.thank so much for that advised.
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really tankful...:)
Love is two hearts beating as one.
awesome!!!!!
it's perfect.
it is like wind,can't be touched.
Love is the magic of distance..
wow.... its really nice n helpful 4 the boys
thanks alot our dear friend for the advice you always provide us with after lossing some one you find anther one special and well fitting God shall always bless us with the right people we get through u
It created a great inner feeling for me.Great job.hope to hear from you soon on these topics.....
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its not satisfied need some more
The way you have explain the date is grt.. all the best.
GUD LOVE TIP
unfeignedly!... dats undoubtedly awsome!!...
It's really help, Thanks for good advice,nor more or nor little
its always good to have someone who can lead the other on other things
I hav problem how to start romantic chat... this 1 is gud.
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Its really nice to give Men these hints, some doesn't know how to treat Lady nicely.
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Love is like a thick sand the deeper you go the harder to go out. Thank's for revealing this secrate.
change in the life is love .. love makes life beautifull..
love is not forever, but the people who entitle in love could be forever...
THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE GOD BLESS YOU
Hi Kate , thanks for providing such a beautifull way as really this is the best thing we should go for!!! This is really important for a healthy relationship...
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It was wonderful,i try it out with a girl.keep it up
That is great,but could you tell us some of the phrases to put across on that date.
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I feel much relief and it boosted my esteem. Thanks to KATE.
Nice. Hope I will archive my girl frnd. Need more about first expression.
awesome maaaan...
it will definitely help me in my date....
so plz do give more suggestion if u hv.....
Fabuluos n great.need more man
As dbang as said,luv is a beautiful tin.
it made me realize a lot..
thankz.
*to
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that is great thanks,keep it up!!!
thanxs 4 de advice. Waitin 4 more 2 come.
love is something you dont wanna be with out its who yov are
I will always love my hubby wholeheartedly.can't live without him
That is okay! Good I read it.Tanx
without love is like, mobile phone without sim card. lol.. love is every thing in this world...
I think that love is really matter of must to be able to continue in this world . But it must be in right way . we must be ourselves . Not try to act differently to make others love us . Do u agree ?
love should be for the girl and the guy but it is hard to love someone who never love u LOL that as me life without love is nothing realy nothng
good love tips for guys only....
Wat about gals
Sooooh luvly and romantic. Nice tips, kip-it-up.
Thanks.
Gøood work,and thnks for the advice
we realy want more
Thanks for all comments..
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thanks
I really like your post. Does it copyright protected?
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da best. Keep it going! Thank you
Oh what a great article keep it up
Hi, good post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for posting. I’ll definitely be coming back
Original post by mattusmaximus
that is very great and romantic thanks.
its realised that luv does not mean cure but care for some one who needs and the one it deserve for its need
quite fabuluos and romantic ..waauh
Nice n very romantic .
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its pretty cool!!!.
thanks Kate, great articles..
we want more ;)
great one!
At first date, people shouldn't care neither too much nor little..