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How romantic you should be

At the first date how romantic you should be?

No matter if you think about the first romantic date with a new person or just the first date in your life, this special occasion is a very emotionally as well as intellectually challenging one and that because of the pressure of "first impression counts" wise and old, still actual, saying.

Yes, that's true, the first impression counts and this is what you should have in mind when preparing to go out for a first romantic date with your possible next love or who knows ?!... maybe the greatest love of your life.

When I talk about first impression I don't necessary mean the impression provoked by the way you look - it does count that, too, however it is not the most important aspect - but I am talking about the way your girlfriend will be left feeling about dating with you.

There is a famous and true saying, "People will not remember what you said. People will not remember what you did. But people will always remember how you made them feel." ( Maya Angelou ), which apply even for romantic dating situations.

But what does "romantic date" mean?

Well, it seems that there is not such thing as an universally valid definition for this concept, the meaning varies largely from person to person. Generally speaking, romance is an outward expression of someone's affection in a such creative yet old fashioned ways that would make the beneficiary emotionally overwhelmed by the passion displayed. We can say then that being romantic means expressing creatively your love for your mate.

Let's see now how can you make her leave with the feeling that the time spent with you was a great romantic date and that you're The One for her.

First, you should make a list of the "data" you already have about your girl and start planning your date taking in consideration that information.

For example, if you know about her she is kind of 'tough" girl who likes to watch and to do extreme sports and prefer to watch action movies instead of love stories, chances are that she appreciates more the "macho" type boy than an overly romantic one and in this case be wise and act consequently.

This does not mean you should behave like a totally anti-romantic "macho" during your romantic date, but rather that you should moderate your romantic gestures.

Neither appear with a bunch of red roses when meeting her, nor let her leave without any flower, better make your walking/driving itinerary beside a flower shop, stop there and invite her to choose her favorite flowers.

Also, this way you make sure won't pick the wrong flowers ( you might be surprised but there are a lot of girls who simply don't like roses despite of the romantic potential meaning they have, though they might never express that explicitly to you).

The next step is to choose carefully the place where to go and the type of activity you'll do. No matter what personality is your girl, for a first romantic date avoid the crowded places such as a cinema, theatres, museums, amusement parks and the like even if your date is the extrovert type and would normally prefer such places.

Why? Because you won't have the opportunity to talk about yourself and get to know each other better, a crucial condition for propelling and developing a lasting relationship.

Plus, you may risk to leave the girl having a feeling that you were afraid of spending time "face to face" with her and preferred instead to "hide" behind the crowd, she might even think you don't actually like her that much and she 's just an "adventure" for you.

Remember that this first romantic date is essential to convince her you're worthy of being her next boyfriend, it's not time to be cheap now , so pick up a nice restaurant and have dinner together . Don't forget to announce her in advance where you have in mind to go, that way she could dress properly for the event. Apart for spending a romantic evening (you might even invite her to dance if you're good at dancing), you'll have an excellent opportunity to find out more about each other preferences.

Another important thing to take in consideration for a romantic date is to leave room for mystery, too. Don't share with her every of your hobbies, dreams, thoughts and plans for future, you'll look like a nice guy but totally uninteresting, good to be "just friends", not her lover.

Girls love "magic", that would make them dream with open eyes and they'll go crazy for the guy who knows how to create that sensation.

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I think Love is every thing. I LOVE U SAM :-)

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Any one cannot destroy that

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kimaru edgar sent this on 07/04/2010, 07:24

briliant ideas

Raj sent this on 28/03/2010, 07:16

On the first date just forget the world and there is no one in the world except you and than feel the moment. Love you all

Myhlze honey sent this on 26/03/2010, 15:29

Yeah..i agree w/ this first impression on the first date bcoz i was then havng a great time on our first date w/ my boyfrnd..and now were still togethr & too mch in love w/ each other & it will b 4evr..thanks 4 ur advice,it really works..

sweetie sent this on 25/03/2010, 05:32

i agree with u,first impression means a lot.thx for that advised

sweetie sent this on 25/03/2010, 05:26

first impression means a lot,i agree with u a lot.thank so much for that advised.

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Love is two hearts beating as one.

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it is like wind,can't be touched.

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Love is the magic of distance..

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wow.... its really nice n helpful 4 the boys

flavia sent this on 14/01/2010, 06:18

thanks alot our dear friend for the advice you always provide us with after lossing some one you find anther one special and well fitting God shall always bless us with the right people we get through u

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It created a great inner feeling for me.Great job.hope to hear from you soon on these topics.....

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The way you have explain the date is grt.. all the best.

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its always good to have someone who can lead the other on other things

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I hav problem how to start romantic chat... this 1 is gud.

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Lady R sent this on 29/11/2009, 01:19

Its really nice to give Men these hints, some doesn't know how to treat Lady nicely.

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thanks for the message... love it! mwaaaah, mwaaah.....

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thanks a lot,keep it up

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Love is like a thick sand the deeper you go the harder to go out. Thank's for revealing this secrate.

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change in the life is love .. love makes life beautifull..

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love is not forever, but the people who entitle in love could be forever...

DR.PIE sent this on 25/09/2009, 13:05

THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE GOD BLESS YOU

Sandy sent this on 17/09/2009, 03:06

Hi Kate , thanks for providing such a beautifull way as really this is the best thing we should go for!!! This is really important for a healthy relationship...

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really nice i like it thanks for sharing

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It was wonderful,i try it out with a girl.keep it up

fazal sent this on 11/09/2009, 08:26

That is great,but could you tell us some of the phrases to put across on that date.

zamani sent this on 07/09/2009, 05:29

ooh dats great man kip it up yoooooooo!

Sachin Rai sent this on 03/09/2009, 12:59

I feel much relief and it boosted my esteem. Thanks to KATE.

Munna sent this on 17/08/2009, 11:41

Nice. Hope I will archive my girl frnd. Need more about first expression.

vinod k sent this on 10/08/2009, 10:26

awesome maaaan...
it will definitely help me in my date....
so plz do give more suggestion if u hv.....

koec nahashon sent this on 28/07/2009, 15:39

Fabuluos n great.need more man

Olasukarr 08062409466 sent this on 26/07/2009, 17:02

As dbang as said,luv is a beautiful tin.

rekoiz sent this on 26/07/2009, 07:29

it made me realize a lot..
thankz.

*to
write
love
on her
arms*

ms.black sent this on 21/07/2009, 05:01

that is great thanks,keep it up!!!

Mada Dzanjalimodzi sent this on 15/07/2009, 06:35

thanxs 4 de advice. Waitin 4 more 2 come.

Jazzypooh sent this on 12/07/2009, 04:17

love is something you dont wanna be with out its who yov are

Sarmin sent this on 10/07/2009, 19:06

I will always love my hubby wholeheartedly.can't live without him

mabwl sent this on 10/07/2009, 09:11

That is okay! Good I read it.Tanx

iqbaans sent this on 04/07/2009, 04:53

without love is like, mobile phone without sim card. lol.. love is every thing in this world...

mahmoud sent this on 04/07/2009, 03:32

I think that love is really matter of must to be able to continue in this world . But it must be in right way . we must be ourselves . Not try to act differently to make others love us . Do u agree ?

Abood sent this on 02/07/2009, 22:30

love should be for the girl and the guy but it is hard to love someone who never love u LOL that as me life without love is nothing realy nothng

abc sent this on 28/06/2009, 14:07

good love tips for guys only....
Wat about gals

Scrobalytes sent this on 22/06/2009, 15:54

Sooooh luvly and romantic. Nice tips, kip-it-up.
Thanks.

Ticka sent this on 20/06/2009, 03:40

Gøood work,and thnks for the advice

helyn 9ja sent this on 16/06/2009, 08:43

we realy want more

Kate sent this on 15/06/2009, 12:52

Thanks for all comments..

@KattyBlackyard yes it is copyright protected, but you can use it in your web pages with a link to this page.

thanks

KattyBlackyard sent this on 15/06/2009, 03:06

I really like your post. Does it copyright protected?

tumi sent this on 08/06/2009, 14:25

this is great, thanks guys

AndrewBoldman sent this on 04/06/2009, 19:27

da best. Keep it going! Thank you

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Oh what a great article keep it up

Bill Brown jr sent this on 03/06/2009, 11:43

Hi, good post. I have been wondering about this issue,so thanks for posting. I’ll definitely be coming back

KrisBelucci sent this on 02/06/2009, 21:08

Original post by mattusmaximus

Anthony christo sent this on 30/05/2009, 06:39

that is very great and romantic thanks.

niwagaba julius sent this on 29/05/2009, 06:00

its realised that luv does not mean cure but care for some one who needs and the one it deserve for its need

kips sent this on 26/05/2009, 05:09

quite fabuluos and romantic ..waauh

Jeremy 0726098699 eldy sent this on 25/05/2009, 08:05

Nice n very romantic .

willyce sent this on 25/05/2009, 05:38

kip it up,itz superb.

kenneth. sent this on 24/05/2009, 13:32

its pretty cool!!!.

jane sent this on 23/05/2009, 16:19

thanks Kate, great articles..

we want more ;)

marcel sent this on 21/05/2009, 09:09

great one!

At first date, people shouldn't care neither too much nor little..

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